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Sunday, October 14, 2012

34 Weeks!!

How far along? 34w3d

 I am feeling huge!

 I can hardly believe I am going to meet and see this cute little boy in about 4-6 weeks! He has the most precious little face :) We had a hard time getting him to move his hands out of his face, but finally when we did, this is what I saw. Cutest little lips! Cutest little nose! And we could see a little bit of hair on his head!

Size of baby? At my 34 week appointment, baby Camden is weighing in at about 5.25 lbs. still measuring about two weeks ahead!

Total weight gain/loss: +19 from my pre-pregnancy weight of 122...so I am weighing in at 141!!! Can't believe I broke 140! I almost died when I saw the scale :( I haven't had any issues with gaining weight till this week...I am blaming it on the hormones ha ha
   
Maternity clothes? better believe it!!

Pregnancy symptoms this week? SO TIRED! I feel like I could sleep all day long, also had some more swelling in my feet. Doc says I need to elevate my feet every night and drink a lot of water. 

Stretch marks? none, but my belly is so itchy!  
 
Sleep: Not so great this week! I think my last post jinxed me! I was sleeping pretty good, but Camden does not like any position I sleep in, so I am tossing and turning ALL.NIGHT.LONG while Charlie and John are snoring ha ha 
 
Best moment this week: 34 Week Appointment. Got Some more pics of our sweet baby boy.
  
Miss Anything? oh...just feeling blessed to be pregnant with a healthy baby boy. All the things I miss can wait.  
 
Movement: Baby Camden is a mover! His moves are feeling more like jabs here and there now. I can see my entire belly move when he kicks his legs and feet. He however could care less to move those little hands out of his face during our ultrasounds though...I guess he wants it to be a surprise when we see him for the first time!!  
 
Food cravings: Paces Popsicles, and still hot chocolate...I hate to admit that I have been stopping at McDonald's every morning to grab one :) So yummy!

 
Anything making you queasy or sick: soda
 
Have you started to show yet: very much so! Even my maternity clothes are getting tight.
 
Gender: Baby Boy

Belly button in or out? flat as can be! You can kind of see it through my shirt though :)     
 
Wedding rings on or off? It's still on :)
 
Mood?  OH.MY.GOSH! I am going to have a baby! I am going to be a mom in just 6 short weeks (at the most) I wonder what he will look like, I wonder how big he will be.... I wonder what his little personality will be like.
 
Looking forward to: My work baby shower, only two more weeks of working till I get to be a stay-at-home mom,and finishing up all our last minute things before baby Camden comes. 



34 Week Appointment: 
Our appointment this week went great! Baby Camden is healthy and growing right on track (even measuring a little ahead still) He had a huge growth spurt two weeks ago and these past two weeks gained a quarter of a pound. 

I had a few questions for Dr. Bierer this week...

*I asked him what is my safe zone if I go into labor on my own. He said he would like to me to keep baby Camden in there until at least 36 weeks. if he came after that, they wouldn't stop me. 

*I asked him if I didn't go into labor on my own if he would make me go over my due date. He said he wouldn't make me go over my due date if my cervix looked okay. so that means I would get induced on Thanksgiving :)


I have questions for him every time I go in, but still find myself feeling extremely unprepared! I decided this week that things will happen the way they are supposed to and I need to not stress so much!

Monday, October 8, 2012

33 Weeks!!

 
How far along? 33w4d

Size of baby? Baby Camden is about the size of a Pineapple. The Internet says he weighs about 4.23 pounds, but baby Camden is weighing more than that right now at around 5lbs :)

Total weight gain/loss: +17 from my pre-pregnancy weight of 122...so I am weighing in at 139!!!
   
Maternity clothes? Yes, all my bottoms I wear are maternity bottoms. I can't stand to where anything that is tight on my belly.All my shirts are no maternity though. Since the Fall weather has been upon us I am been loving cardigans.

Pregnancy symptoms this week? Sinus infection, exhaustion, back pain, swelling feet.
Stretch marks? not yet! But a VERY itchy tummy! 
 
Sleep: I have been so tired lately. I take a nap when I get home from work and I go to bed at 8:30 at night. Even though I am waking up every hour to go to the bathroom, I am sleeping pretty good. (hopefully that will stay the same.)
 
Best moment this week: Finally getting rid of my sinus infection! And completing Baby Camden's room!
  
Miss Anything? oh...just feeling blessed to be pregnant with a healthy baby boy. All the things I miss can wait.  
 
Movement: Yes! Baby Camden is more active during the day, but he has had a few late night parties in there this week. 
 
Food cravings: Paces Popsicles, Chocolate Lucky Charms, hot chocolate ( oh how I LOVE hot chocolate)  
Anything making you queasy or sick: soda
 
Have you started to show yet: Um...yes! I have a BIG belly! Everyone has noticed the belly is getting bigger, especially these last couple of weeks. Baby Camden must have decided to wait until the last minute to grow ha ha
 
Gender: Baby Boy

Belly button in or out? what belly button...it's so flat, it's like it's gone.    
 
Wedding rings on or off? It's still on :)
 
Mood?  Happy Happy Happy...a little stressed about not getting everything done before Camden gets here, but I know it will all work out. I am also feeling anxious...we are very excited to finally meet this baby boy.  
 
Looking forward to: Our 34 week appointment! We get a 3D ultrasound and will be able to see Baby Camden's little facial details. CAN'T WAIT!

Saturday, October 6, 2012

Camden's Nursery

Camden's nursery is complete (well...for the most part!) We still need a ottoman for mom and dad to rest their feet on :) My thought is to find an old one from a rocker, and re-upolster it with the same fabric I used for the curtains...I am hoping John and I can manage to do this in the next month.

I can't tell you how long I have waited to decorate a nursery...boy or girl. I had ideas fluttering around in my head and couldn't wait to find out what we were having so we could get started on the nursery. When we found out we were having a little boy, I decided I wanted to have his nursery be a room he could grow up with. I am SO HAPPY to see how it has turned out. I had much help from my husband :) He did the dirty work...all the painting, wood cutting, and the beautiful large map that I just had to have on the wall! I got to do the fun part...DECORATE! It is everything and more than I have ever dreamed of. I hope Camden enjoys it as much as we do :)







Wednesday, October 3, 2012

32 Weeks!!


How far along? 32w6d

Size of baby? Remember at my 30 week post when Camden weighed 3lds 3oz?! Well...at my 32 week appointment Baby Camden weighed in at a whopping 5lds 5oz! Doctor said usually ultrasounds can be off about a half a pound, so he is guess that Baby Camden is weighing about 5lbs right now. He grew a lot in just two weeks...at this rate I am not sure he will make it until his due date :) but we shall see! 

Total weight gain/loss: +15 from my pre-pregnancy weight of 122...so I am weighing in at 137!!!
   
Maternity clothes? Maternity Jeans...wear all three pair every week. I don't want to go buy any other bottoms since I am almost done.

Pregnancy symptoms this week? Braxton Hicks contractions (these have been pretty bad this week), Back pain, stuffy nose, feeling like baby boy is going to fall out ha ha  
 
Stretch marks? None yet...but if my stomach grows anymore I am afraid I might see some at the end of my pregnancy.   
 
Sleep: Sleep is going good...not the best, but I am sleeping so that makes me happy. I go to bed at about 8:30 every night because I am so exhausted. Even though I get up eight times a night to go to the bathroom, I can usually fall right back to sleep :)
 
Best moment this week: Our 32 Week appointment and my Friends and Family baby shower my mom hosted! We feel so blessed from all the support and many gifts we have been given. Baby Camden is already VERY loved.
  
Miss Anything? Lots, but I am feeling so blessed to be carrying this baby boy. 
 
Movement: Baby Camden is a mover! I have noticed he sleeps more at night and is more active during the day...at least for now :) 
 
Food cravings: No real cravings this week.  
 
Anything making you queasy or sick: Nothing this week...not even my iron supplement! 
 
Have you started to show yet: Oh yes! I have most definitely got bigger in the last couple of week (guess that explains the weight Baby Camden has put on)
 
Gender: Still a little boy...daddy makes the doctor check at every appointment :)

Belly button in or out? completely flat!    
 
Wedding rings on or off? On
 
Mood?  I am so happy to be pregnant! I am still feeling nervous to be a first time mommy, but I am hoping once Camden comes things will feel natural. 
 
Looking forward to: Our 34 week appointment! We get a 3D ultrasound and will be able to see Baby Camden's little facial details. CAN'T WAIT!

Wednesday, September 26, 2012

31 Weeks!!

These posts get harder every week that goes by, but I know it is all stuff I want to remember, so I am being a good girl and trying my hardest to keep up on it :) 

How far along? 31w6d


Size of baby? He is the size of a Pineapple.

Total weight gain/loss: Same as last week...my guess is because I was sick. +14 from my pre-pregnancy weight of 122...so I am weighing in at 136!!!

 
Maternity clothes? I have three pair of maternity jeans, they are more dressy so I I have been wearing them to work every week. The weather is cooling down, so no more summer skirts for me.

Pregnancy symptoms this week? Braxton Hicks contractions, Back pain, leg cramps and feet cramps are back!, heartburn when I eat certain foods.  
 
Stretch marks? NOPE!!! Not yet at least :)  
 
Sleep: Sleep is actually decent right now...I wake up every two or so hours to go to the bathroom, but I am so tired that I can usually fall right back to sleep. I have had to force myself to at least stay up until 8:30pm. I'm ready to call it a night by then :) Very similar to my first trimester. Also, I feel like John and I are Grandpa Joe and Grandma Georgine off of Charlie and the Chocolate factory...we sleep at opposite sides of the bed! Don't ask me why, I just sleep better.
 
Best moment this week:  I had my Huston family baby shower...and man did we get spoiled! I will do a seperate post on my shower later. A BIG thank you to my mother-in-law, sis-in-law, and all the family that came to support baby Camden and myself. We are so lucky to have such awesome family. We also got Maternity pictures done, and they turned out so cute! Can't wait to get the rest of the edited photos back. I am so glad we decided to do these photos because it's definitely a special time I want to remember.
  
Miss Anything? Sleeping on my back and tummy, that's about it this week. I know I am going to miss being pregnant when Camden comes, so I am enjoying all it has to bring.  
 
Movement: Lots and lots and lots of movement. I feel more movement through out the day, than I do at night. I wonder if this means Baby Camden will sleep really good a night...I guess we will find out in eight weeks!!
 
Food cravings: Coke with extra ice please! 
 
Anything making you queasy or sick: I got pretty sick this week. Besides fighting a cold and cough (yeah it came back) I decided to drink a glass of OJ after taking my prenatal vitamin and Iron pill...bad idea. I lost my entire dinner and unfortunately had to run to the toilet three times to throw up :( It was horrible! I can have OJ, just not with my vitamins. 
 
Have you started to show yet: Yes :) We did our Maternity photo session last week and I made sure it was all about the baby bump! I am going to miss this tummy soon, but I do get a cute little boy instead, so I'll take that :) 
 
Gender: Little boy...wonder what he'll look like?!

Belly button in or out? It's a flat one!    
 
Wedding rings on or off? On
 
Mood?  I am experiencing so many different emotions right now...I am excited, scared, nervous, anxious, impatient...you get the idea.
 
Looking forward to: Our 32 week appointment on Thursday and my family/ friends baby shower on Saturday!

Monday, September 24, 2012

Infertility

What a yucky word! Unfortunately now days there are so many people that have to deal with this yucky word. There is a girls blog I have been following for the last year. This blog gave me the strength I needed and the hope I desired when I was going through infertility. I wanted to share with anybody who reads my blog and might be dealing with yucky infertility. So here you go :)  

~Enjoy~

It always helps when there are others who you can relate to.

Thursday, September 20, 2012

SNEAK PEAK of Maternity Pictures!

I am in LOVE with these photos we got taken by Elevated Films here in Utah. There are so many awesome places to get pictures done, but I am so glad we decided to go with Memory Grove. This is only a hand full of the awesome pictures Stacey and Kelly from Elevated Films took! We are so grateful they were able to capture this special moment for us. When I saw these I got super emotional realizing we really are finally have a baby and how blessed I feel...I guess it took me seeing my belly bump in a bunch of pictures for it to become reality ha ha. Stay tuned for my favorites when they are all edited! 
 













Saturday, September 15, 2012

29 and 30 Weeks!!!

These two week are going to be combined this week! Week 29 wasn't exactly the best week of pregnancy for me. I caught a cold from work and between a sore throat, cough, stuffy nose....and being pregnant, I got absolutely no sleep and the minute I got home from work I was out like a light the rest of the day! I am happy to say I am feeling much better today, and though I am still a little stuffed up, I will take that over a sore throat any day :)

I had another appointment on Thursday and baby Camden is growing and is healthy! That's always a relief to hear. Best part...HE FINALLY TURNED! He is getting ready to make his debut in just 9 (ish) short weeks. I was wondering why I all of the sudden felt like my belly had dropped a little...and I am feeling more pressure than ever in my abdomen.

So here is my 29/30 week survey...


How far along? 30w2d

Size of baby? Baby Camden is weighing in at 3lds 3oz at 30 weeks.

Total weight gain/loss: +14 from my pre-pregnancy weight of 122...so I am weighing in at 136!!!
 
Maternity clothes? I went and bought the cutest pair of boot cut jeans and skinny jeans at Motherhood Maternity...out of all places. I don't know if others feel this way, but I think of Motherhood Maternity of not the most hip pregnancy clothes...I was wrong! They carry petite size and they fit me perfectly!  

Pregnancy symptoms this week? Braxton Hicks contractions, exhaustion, BACK PAIN, and had an acne breakout (haven't had much of a problem with that my entire pregnancy) 
 
Stretch marks? not any yet...hopefully won't get any at all! 
 
Sleep: Week 29 was terrible because I was sick...Week 30 has been better. Still waking up every two hours or so, but my body is getting used to less sleep. 


Best moment this week:  30 week doctor's appointment! My iron levels are good, my blood pressure is good, baby Camden is healthy, and we are hopefully on our way to a complication free birth ha ha. I am so glad this little boy has decided to turn (even if I am feeling much more pressure and pain)
  
Miss Anything? I have a list :) but it's all worth it! And I really am trying to enjoy all the little things about this pregnancy. I know once Camden is out I am going to miss being pregnant. 
 
Movement: Yes! In fact week 29 is when I think baby Camden decided to turn...it was painful! My entire tummy was moving! And now I get to feel his little feet up in my ribs all the time :) can't wait to kiss those little feet!  
 
Food cravings: Pace's Popcicles, egg Mcmuffin's from McDonald's, and still lots and lots of water.  
 
Anything making you queasy or sick: Nothing really these last two weeks. The heat still hasn't gone away completely. Temperatures have been cooler, but anything above 80 makes me sick and so tired!
 
Have you started to show yet: yeah...I grew more these last two weeks and I am wondering who my tummy can possibly get bigger, but I am sure it will. I have also dropped a little since baby Camden turned. 
 
Gender: It's a cute! cute! cute! little boy :)

Belly button in or out? It's flat this week...almost like I don't really have one anymore.    
 
Wedding rings on or off? On
 
Mood?  So happy and can't wait to meet baby Camden. I am also at the same time experiencing some anxiety thinking about labor and that there will be a baby coming out of me lol! I guess everyone else does it, so hopefully I will be okay. 
 
Looking forward to: Maternity couple pictures on Monday, and first baby shower in a week! 

Wednesday, September 5, 2012

28 Weeks!! Hello Third Trimester

Am I really in my third trimester?! It's hard to believe...This pregnancy has gone by pretty fast, but I have a feeling these last 12 weeks are going to take the back seat. Things have been uncomfortable and I think it's going to make things go by a little bit slower :) I am finding myself getting stressed out thinking of all the things we need and the fact we are going to be parents in just 80 short days! I also can't wait to meet this little boy...I can't wait to see what he looks like, get to know his personality and just love on him. Our life is going to change so much, and we are so excited for it! 

Here is my survey for this week...


 How far along? 28w6d

Size of baby? Baby Camden is the size of a Squash 

Total weight gain/loss: No idea this week... Probably somewhere around +11 from pre-pregnancy weight of 122. So weighing in at 133 :) I am honestly too lazy to go pull out the scale to check...how pathetic am I?!
 
Maternity clothes? I need more! I don't want to buy more, but I need more! With gong back to work, I have tried to do the rubber band trick with my dress pants and it's just not working out. When I sit I am uncomfortable because its tight on my belly. I DO NOT LIKE TIGHT STUFF ON MY BELLY :) So even though I will only be at work for two more months, I probably need to buy at least one pair on pants and wear dresses every other day...I wish I could wear sweats.... (not really) but some days I feel this way ha ha 

Pregnancy symptoms this week? Worst symptom this week...I CAN'T BREATHE! It scares me sometimes. I find myself waking up in the middle of the night and I am taking deep breaths because I can't seem to find any air. I have also had some back pain, and Braxton Hicks contractions.
 
Stretch marks? No, but my skin feels like it can't stretch anymore ha ha...I keep looking though and haven't seen any. 
 
Sleep: I am still waking up every couple of hours, but I am managing to get the sleep I need to function :)


Best moment this week: My husband is amazing...can I just say that?! Best moment this week was receiving the adorable Baby Shower invitations that he created for my mom and his mom's baby showers coming up this month. He has also done a ton of designing in the computer for the shower. He is so talented and Love this little boy so much already! He just wants these baby showers to be perfect :)
  
Miss Anything? A lot of things, but I absolutely love being pregnant!
 
Movement: Lots and lots of movement everyday! Movements are becoming more defined and stronger...I can also tell things are getting a bit more squishy in there. 
 
Food cravings: Water...if that can even be considered a craving. 
 
Anything making you queasy or sick: Sweets...not loving them lately. It's like the first trimester all over again ha ha I am becoming picky about food more often.
 
Have you started to show yet: Yes...oh yes. People kind of stare at me when I am at the store. I wish I knew what they were thinking because I automatically assume they think I am some fat lady or something...dang hormones ha ha
 
Gender: It's a cute! cute! cute! little boy :)

Belly button in or out? It's poking out!    
 
Wedding rings on or off? On
 
Mood?  Happy, irritable, emotional, anxious, excited...a whole lot of emotions! I am scared to be a mom...good thing these emotions are normal. Camden...I hope you will be patient as your mommy learns how to be a mom :) 
 
Looking forward to: Baby Showers! And meeting our baby boy in about 80 days!!

Wednesday, August 29, 2012

27 Weeks!!


How far along? 27w6d

Size of baby? We found out Baby Camden weighs about 2 pounds and 5 ounces right now. 

Total weight gain/loss: Still +9 this week, from my pre-pregnancy weight of 122. Weighing in at 131
 
Maternity clothes? Some and some not

Pregnancy symptoms this week? BACK PAIN, Shortness of breath...to the point I start to hyperventilate because i feel like I am not going to get enough air....anxiety maybe? Must be because Baby Camden's head in hanging out right in my lungs ha ha (yes he is still breech) 
 
Stretch marks? Nope :)
 
Sleep: I have been waking up every two hours. Things have been getting pretty uncomfortable in my back, but I have been going to bed earlier, so I am managing to get a decent amount of sleep. 


Best moment this week: Another doctors appointment :) I always love doctor's appointments! We didn't get a 4D ultrasound at this one, but we did get a short 2D to measure our little boy and he is measuring healthy and on track. Doctor said we will have a good 7 pound baby :)
  
Miss Anything? A lot of things, but I absolutely love being pregnant!
 
Movement: Lots and lots of movement everyday! 
 
Food cravings: Nothing in particular
 
Anything making you queasy or sick: Ice Cream....remember when I would eat a bowl of this everyday?! The thought of doing that now makes me sick to my stomach! The heat is also not going away ha ha ...we are still having breaking record temperatures! Fall...where are you?!
 
Have you started to show yet: Yes...I love my belly :)
 
Gender: It's a cute! cute! cute! little boy :)
 
Labor Signs: Not many braxton hicks this week.

Belly button in or out? It's poking out!    
 
Wedding rings on or off? On
 
Mood?  Happy, irritable, emotional, anxious, excited...a whole lot of emotions! ha ha 
 
Looking forward to: Baby showers next month, and meeting baby Camden in less than three months!!

Wednesday, August 22, 2012

26 Weeks!!

 ( My tummy feels so much bigger this week than last!)

How far along? 26w6d

Size of baby? He is the size of an a Lettuce Head...and he going to start opening his eyes soon!

Total weight gain/loss: +9 from my pre-pregnancy weight of 122. Weighing in at 131
 
Maternity clothes? Some here and there...I am trying to make what I have work since I only have three more months!

Pregnancy symptoms this week? Back Pain... had to make a trip to Labor and Delivery last Sunday because it was so bad and than I had Braxton Hicks Contractions, so pretty much whatever you read online (no one should read anything online) says I am having back contractions! It scared me and since I was getting ready to head back to work to next day, I thought it would be wise to go and get checked, just to make sure I was going into Pre-Term Labor. After two hours of being hooked up to a monitor, they gave me a pill to relax my muscles and sent me home. I haven't had much back pain since and my Braxton Hicks haven't been coming as often. I am hoping it was just the way Baby Camden was positioned, but I have an appointment on Thursday, so Dr. Bierer will check me then.
 
Stretch marks? Still no stretch marks! YAY! 
 
Sleep: It amazes me how much symptoms and sleep can change from week to week. I had a pretty bad night sleep on Saturday since I was having extreme back pain, but ever since then I have been sleeping better. Not eight hours or straight sleep, but I am getting more sleep. It's probably because I went back to work on Monday and I am up at the crack of dawn again!


Best moment this week: Baby Camden is moving so much!Feeling him wiggle, kick and move is an amazing thing. Also, John designed my baby shower invites for his mom and my mom. Things are beginning to feel more real and real everyday!
  
Miss Anything? I miss a lot of things, but would give them all up for this little baby boy :)   
 
Movement: Lots and lots of movement this week! Sometimes it has hurt, like when I get kicked in the ribs, but it's so great to feel him moving.  
 
Food cravings: Cereal 
 
Anything making you queasy or sick: no really this week. No heartburn or indigestion ( told you it's weird! Certain symptoms come and go.I'm sure these will be back soon)
 
Have you started to show yet: Yes...everyone at work was so surprised to see my belly because when they say me three months ago, I didn't have one.
 
Gender: baby boy :) 
 
Labor Signs: well...thought I was having contractions in my back, still don't know if they really were, but I am happy to say I haven't had anymore this week. THANK GOODNESS. Camden...you need to stay put for at least another 12 weeks ha ha 

Belly button in or out? It's halfway out and halfway in.    
 
Wedding rings on or off? On, but I did have some swelling in my hands the other day.
 
Mood?  Happy to be pregnant, but definitely experiencing some hormonal moods! 
 
Looking forward to: Our next appointment on Thursday! Nothing is better than seeing our cute Baby Camden. Even though it is my Glucose test, I am still looking forward to it. I am also looking forward to Baby Showers in a month!!  

Monday, August 13, 2012

25 Weeks!!!



How far along? 25w4d

Size of baby? He is the size of an cauliflower (something I should eat more of)

Total weight gain/loss: +9 from my pre-pregnancy weight of 122. Weighing in at 131!!!
 
Maternity clothes? Some and some not. I bought some cute favorite boyfriend jeans at American Eagle today (obviously in a bigger size), but they fit and I actually feel really good in them.

Pregnancy symptoms this week? Fatigue, back pain, and something new this week...heartburn and indigestion. Also had a couple Braxton Hicks Contractions this week.
 
Stretch marks? Nope, not yet :) 
 
Sleep: ugh...i don't even know what to answer to this question! I don't sleep...too much back pain, hip pain, and just can't get comfortable. By the time I find a position that is comfortable, I have to get up and go pee! 


 I even attempted sleeping at the opposite side of bed one night...this resulted in kicking John and Charlie in the face ha ha...not good!

 But, at least one of us is sleeping :) SPOILED DOG!
 
Best moment this week: Having John FINALLY be able to feel Camden move. We were in the movie theater and Camden was going crazy! John put his hand on my belly and was totally surprises that our little boy could kick as hard as he was.  
  
Miss Anything?  being able to sleep in an position I want :)   
 
Movement: Everyday and sometimes all night long. 
 
Food cravings: No real food cravings lately...just love to eat :) 
 
Anything making you queasy or sick: Soda...I usually have a Coke once a twice a week, but lately it's be upsetting my tummy. I have also been experiencing indigestion with a lot of different foods. 
 
Have you started to show yet: Yep! Can't see my feet when I am standing up anymore. 
 
Gender: baby boy :) 
 
Labor Signs: no "real" labor signs thank goodness. 

Belly button in or out? It's halfway out and halfway in.    
 
Wedding rings on or off? On
 
Mood?  Happy to be pregnant, but I get quickly annoyed, irritable, and I think most days I've been able to cry right on the spot...those dang hormones!!
 
Looking forward to: Baby Showers coming up next month!! John and I have actually been VERY involved in the planning process with our moms and it's been very fun!